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Shoe of the Week...Topshop

This summer is all about the wedges. The trick is to still find a way to be an individual and stand out from the rest of the wedge wearers. These Black PAIGE Buckle Wedges and Gray PAIGE Buckle Wedges will no doubt help you achieve the look you're going for. Also for you starters out there, buckles are pretty popular right now too. To break it down further for you, these have premium leather wedge sandal with buckle detail. Heel approx 5" no question here heel height is definitely He approved.
-He

Get a workout while you walk...Brillant?

FitFlop footwear is biomechanically engineered to help tone and tighten your leg muscles while you walk in them. Studies at the Centre for Human Performance at LSBU show that normal walking in FitFlop sandals(1) can help: increase leg, calf and gluteal muscle activity, improve your posture, e aspects of barefoot walking but with more muscle load, improve muscle tone.

BulSh*t. He is really sick and tired of these companies coming out and trying to convince fat people that if they buy their shoes or sandals and just walk they will instantly be in better shape. Let's cut the sh*t, yes walking is good for you, maybe these things help a little, but they are not game changers. Get out and walk if you want to be in better shape, buying these shoes aren't gonna be the end all be all, try putting down the fork.
-He

Featured: CHIC Magazine

Thank you soooooo much, CHIC! It really is an honor...:)

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Can you Guess Whats Going on Here?

If you click on the picture, you will be able to zoom in which might help. Can you pick out whats wrong or right in this picture? This is exactly why guys like He walk the streets of the world on sunny summer days with a smile on their face.

Women walk outside without a clear idea of how the outfit is going to look in the sun. So this woman walks outside in her sheer dress and her black boy short underwear thinking nothing of it. She was probably safe until He walked up right behind her, saw her amazing ass and took a quick pick. Creepy, sure, but hell isn't that what this blog is based on? Anyway, it is women like this that make the summer so enjoyable. Thank you for making He's lunch time break today, one of the best of the summer so far. (He is an ass man, so this gets extra points)
-He

SIDE BOOB: Sweeps the Nation

Half the time the ArmHe complains when He says stuff like side boob is in, but maybe hearing it from a women will help you better understand. Afterall Summer 2010 is all about sideboob, hear it for yourself.

So now the question remains are you rocking the side boob? Just at night? All Day? You will be hard pressed to find a guy who wouldn't be up for some side boob. It is more captivating to us then cleavage, yea its true.

Also Check out FbyHe's past articles on Side boob, Romper Sideboob, real life side boob. (video thanks to imboycrazy.com)

-He

Dinosaurs Rule!

Epic. I looooooove Vahada's newest dinousaur-inspired collection...:)


And guess what? I'm lucky enough to have three of her pieces...I LOVE.


Dina Vahada is officially my favorite young local designer. Seriously...:)

PS: My new Guess wedges! :)

Perspective

Do not do something because of others.

  • Don't do something because you want to be ahead of others.
  • Don't do something because by doing it, others will compliment you for it.
  • Don't do something because others aren't, and you simply want to be different.
  • Don't do something because others are, and you want to be current.
  • Don't do something because others told you to.
  • Don't do something because others told you not to, and you feel cool being a rebel.
Do something because you enjoy doing it, you believe it brings value to your life, and you just know that it's the right thing to do.

Vibram Five Fingers Bikila...No Thanks!

Haven't we evolved from walking around barefoot? When did someone decide these shoes were going to be a good idea? He was definitely not in on that meeting, no way, no how. Vibram FiveFinger Bikila are the name, hopefully you don't want to buy them.
-He

Matching Bra...NO!

Just because you were able to find a bra that matches your dress does not mean it instantly becomes part of the outfit. If its a strapless dress you cannot just put a bra on and think the strap are now added, that's not how this game works. All you are really telling the world is that you don't care how trasky you look as long as the colors match.
Step up your game.
-He

What is the Most Comfortable Heel?

So He decided He would do some "charity work" today. By "charity work" He simply means helping the ArmHe out. Whenever He says that Heels should be a female requirement in life He catches some heat. Using his King sized brain, He decided that doing a vote to see what the most comfortable line of heels was would help the ArmHe be able to wear heels more frequently.

So calling all ArmHe members, please leave a comment as to what you think the most comfortable heel is on the market, ie. Steve Madden, ASOS, YSL, Gucci, Jessica Simpson, Jeffrey Campbell, etc. He will then be able to recommend a heel to the entire ArmHe that can be worn all the time without complaint.
-He

P.S. If it doesn't come in a 4" + heel, don't even bother listing it.

Go Big or Go Home...The Higher the Heel, the Hotter the Girl

It's a Billion Degrees in NYC...

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Another Bra Replacement...BareLifts!


"A simple solution for saggy breasts..."

Another idea for the ages.

-He

Crop Top + Jean Shorts = Summer Look

He is a big fan of Crop Tops and Jean Shorts, but there comes a point when you have to realize if you are the right person for this outfit. He isn't hating if you have a few extra lbs or a hundred extra lbs, the thing is no one wants to see it hanging over your shorts and out from under your shirt. It is a very simple concept that some people are not understanding. As much as He really wants to see your ass hanging out of your entirely tooo short shorts it really isn't that attractive. Most of the time He won't complain, will just snap a picture, check you out for a few minutes and move on, but some people are out of control. Same is true for the crop top. Girls are wearing these things and He is seeing rolls pouring out. Muff tops are not suppose to be for the public viewing pleasure. Please check out yourself in the mirror before getting dressed, and if the outfit doesn't fit right, or crop tops aren't for you, it's ok, something else will be for you. Save us all the eye sores.
-He

Rumi, I Adore.

This is an AMAZING picture.

Nice one, Rumi. As always...:)

Us.

I am frightened, by the fact that human connections are seamlessly beautiful. And that I will lose it one day, because I or the other no longer exist.

I am terrified, by the certainty that life is not unending. And it will take me away, with or without you.

Life doesn’t end when we die. Life ends when we decide to stop touching others, through our hands moreover our hearts. When I no longer exist in your heart, what is there to share? And when life takes me away, who will be there to care?

I love you, humans. Whether I know you, or whether we’re strangers. Let us smile and greet each other. We are stronger that way.

Pinkie Meets Blue

Remember my blue-edition Levi's jeans? He now has a girlfriend...Ms. Pinkie!! ;p

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Yay! :)

Quote of The Day

"Happiness comes from without and within."

- Richard Layard -

Taylor Swift Makes He Sick...

She is like 21 going on 91. Hey Grandma, sexy bathing suit.
-He

Belle Of The Boulevard

Dashboard Confessional's songs are the best to sing in karaokes...:)

Proud Parents shirt, Forever 21 skirt & hairband, Padini belt, Topshop tights, Kate Spade bag, Wondershoe shoe


Head Over Feet

Hello, Saturday! How's everyone? Sharing with you some of my new stuff...:)

Wondershoe babies...


pillows from Dreamesh...


and a dress from Dress For Less...:)


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How Do You Wear Your One-Pieces?

Bodysuits, one pieces, whatever you want to call them are awesome for summer. He is a big fan, but the problem here is the way people are wearing them. Of course many of the popular ones are lace. The most popular these days, Cotton Spandex Micro-Mesh Gloria-V Bodysuit should never be worn with a bra. We all know that we have seen at least one person in this bodysuit, and unfortunately for He, one person was in a bra. This is a NO Bra outfit, how is that not made clear to you. Ok, now onto other bodysuits. He is a big fan of these when worn with jeans, or jean shorts something along those lines. He can even be okay with them worn with a skirt. Now many of these are lace, and therefore see through. He does not expect you to wear pasties with them, however if you can pull it off, more power to you. For the most part though many girls are going to choose to wear a bra underneath their bodysuit, again not He's first choice but He understands. Try and pick a bra that goes with the style, perhaps a solid color bandeau would work best. Stay away from the lace bras or crazy styles with these tight bodysuits as it looks funky.
-He

Who Wants to Party With HE?

All the rumors you have been hearing are true. He is looking to take over a bar for a end of summer/anniversary/launch party. Date, Time and Location(in nyc) all TBD. Everyone is invited: bloggers, friends, hell bring your families if you want. Should be a good time, if you have a location idea He-mail fashionbyhe@gmail.com. Gonna need a camera guy(photog) to come document this, if interested contact He. He approved attire will be required.
-He

Leather Body Harness...Everyone Needs 1!

What a great outfit for summer. Breezy, light, sure to turn some heads, but hey for a night out in NYC, go big or go home. He isn't sure if this is a bedroom article of clothing, or if its suppose to be worn as is. Definitely would be a big hit for your next fetish party.

Black 100% leather bondage body harness with double-winged shoulder pad details and front/rear buckled closure - designed in collaboration with Zana Bayne!
He would probably advise to stay away from such a garment.
-He

The Color Police Are Coming for You...

Not feeling this outfit at all. Even thouse the tiny wedges have like some weird cut outs. Stripes, solids, bright colors, ugh, it is all giving He a headache.
-He

Two Identified

Guys...these accounts are not mine, therefore please ignore...

  1. Diana Andini Rikasari
  2. Diana Rikasari
My real facebook account is this, however I prefer to keep it for close friends and family only...hope you understand! :)

Someone said…that “I dream too much”.

Truthfully speaking, I’m having mixed feelings right now. But in between being sad, surprised, disheartened and slightly angry, I am more perplexed. I was questioned, whether I ever touch the ground and realize that reality has never been that beautiful.

But why?

This is reality. My days where I wake up, take a shower, dress up, greet my parents and leave the house for work is reality. And the times where I get to blog and be recognized for it, meet new people, be inspired to achieve higher, is also reality. And the moments where I have disagreements with my parents, fight with my loved one, feel left out and fail so many times is nothing but reality. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. And when the owner says it’s pretty, it just is.

I dream big, and I work hard to achieve it. I believe that life is too short for us to have too many doubts and worries, and life feels very much worthy when we have something we want to achieve at the end of the day. Why settle for what we already have? I think it’s perfectly normal to keep challenging ourselves and redefine the meaning of success everytime we feel we’ve own it by setting another new goal. Life is short, but if you come to think of it, we actually have 365 days in a year. Being 25, I’ve spent about 9,131 days already and that’s a lot. If we look at our lives from this perspective, we are actually given so many days to build new dreams, make them real and move forward. So yes, I dream much, and I am comfortable with it because it makes me feel happy, motivated and complete.

At the very same time, I am fully aware of all the risks and consequences, minor and major. Dreaming requires us to be strong, to be able to tell ourselves to get up and try again if we fail. And most of all, it requires faith.

When people tell you, “you are incapable”, tell them “I’ll give it a try”. And when they say, “go ahead and make a fool out of yourself”, let them know “it’s worth it”.

All things considered, I think it's important to be honest, wise & reasonable. Some dreams might end unachievable. But at least we've tried, and that's all that matters.

:)

Thank You...Pret-a-Surf

Umm is anyone else drooling or just He? He doesn't have answers for anything but He will tell you right now there is something very sexy about these Rash Guards. A girl rockin one of these things in the ocean might draw his attention faster then a shark. Three versions here, tank top, short sleeve and long sleeve, and each one is sexy. Just not you don't always have to show off a lot of skin to be considered sexy, that's right, you heard it here first. Of course, these outfits MUST be worn with Cheeky Bottoms.
-He

Quote of The Day

"Doubts are the mother of lost opportunity."

- Diana Rikasari -

Touchdown

Back in Jakarta!

Bought these Proud Parents trousers from Happy-go-Lucky while I was in Bandung...super loving it! :)

Aya Beautyshop necklace, headpiece & ring, Nine West shoes

Let He Put His Hands on You...

Maybe you have heard of Dime Piece maybe not. But they do have some pretty cool stuff. While it isn't going to work for everyone if you are looking for an out of the box tshirt this might be a place you want to check out. They are also the company response for these hands all over dresses, that He thinks if worn by the right person makes for a pretty cool outfit. ArmHe liking the Dime Peice?
-He


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Always Recycle...and be He approved!

Are there really any questions here? Besides the fact that she isn't on He's arm, He approves. Off the shoulder shirts like that = very sexy. It doesn't take a lot of skin to impress a guy! He hopes you are taking notes.
-He

Shoe of the Week...DSquared

DSquared was featured as the first Shoe of the Week of 2010, and it's about time to bring them back. These BoneCrushing Heels are awesome. The heel on the top left stands 6.3" high of pure bone. Arrival on these heels won't be until September, unless of course you were lucky enough to get a hold of the first run. Pretty much the reason these are so cool, is yes they are high as hell and yes "the higher the heel the hotter the girl" but we haven't seen a heel this cool since the Empire State Building Heels.
-He

DOWN GOES GAGA...HAHAHA

Just because He says, "higher the heel, the hotter the girl." This only STANDS true, if you actually stay on your feet! HAHAHAHAHA...that's funny.

-He

Not a Bathing Suit for Summer...

"You will fall in LOVE with Luv-B's sexy, unique, and original bikinis!"
He doesn't think so! He is a guy and loves seeing chicks in sexy outfits, but unless you're a stripper this bathing suit (if it is even one) doesn't belong on a beach or in a pool or on you.

You can get your sexy mini string micro bikini monokini teddy dancer and other extremely slutty items here. Thanks to Jay for the tip.
-He

The Sun Will Come Out Tomorrow...

Stack on a few more peices of yellow...and a few more pounds why you're add it. Looks like you need a little bit more of both. NOT!
-He

A T-Shirt Can Change the World...

He needs the ArmHe's help. He feels its time to start getting some Fashion by He tshirts made. He has a view ideas of his own but wants your help in desiging the final shirt that will be for sale on the website. Submit all designs to fashionbyhe@gmail.com July 1st He will post all ideas and the ArmHe can vote on the winner.
Let's see what the ArmHe can come up with.
-He

Introducing the G-String - Thong...

Today He is taking some time out to introduce you to the G-String and Thongs. This might come as a shock to many of you but this is not a new invention. Don't get He wrong, He loves a good boy short or cheeky bottom but there is a time and a place for everything. Unless you are trying to show off the underwear lines to get a guys attention, He would really suggest with tight or clingy outfits you make the switch to a less visible pair of underwear.
-He

P.S. He can admit not the strongest of blogging days, but hey the "sun will come out" tomorrow. So check back because He has a strong lineup to finish off the week with.